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Writer's pictureJanelle Burke

The Parable of the Torn Matriarch

In a bustling city of concrete and chaos, where the hum of life masked the silent burdens of its people, there lived a mother and her three daughters. They shared a modest home filled with memories of love and struggle, a place where laughter and tears had both left their marks. Above them, in her worn chair by the window, sat the matriarch—their great-grandmother. She was the unspoken anchor of the family, her presence steady as a lighthouse. However, her light had grown dim under the weight of generations of pain.


The family was fractured, each woman carrying a piece of the same heart but unable to unite their fragments.


- The eldest daughter, the flame, burned brightly with ambition and a fierce sense of responsibility. Yet her intensity often scorched those around her, especially her sisters, whom she sought to protect but inadvertently controlled.

- The middle daughter, the stone, carried the invisible weight of resentment and bitterness. Her silence was her armor, but it also walled her off, isolating her even as she longed to connect.

- The youngest daughter, the wind, was untethered, drifting from one decision to the next. Her impulsiveness often led her astray, leaving her family scrambling to pull her back from danger.


The mother, the earth, caught between them and held them together even as she crumbled beneath the pressure. She loved them fiercely, but her silence, born of exhaustion and fear, had become another barrier.


The matriarch, weathered but wise, watched them with sorrowful eyes. She saw the seeds of alienation that had been sown long before their time—traumas passed down like heirlooms. She saw the fractures in their bond, the wounds of words left unsaid and emotions left unhealed. And she knew that the roots of their family tree, though deep, were in danger of snapping.


One evening, as the city roared outside their walls, the family gathered in the same room, a rare and uneasy moment of togetherness. The air was thick with tension, each daughter seated at a distance, their unspoken grievances filling the silence. The mother sat with her head in her hands, her spirit heavy with the weight of it all.


The matriarch, sensing the urgency of the moment, began to speak.


"There was once a tree," she said, low but commanding, "that grew in the center of a great forest. Its roots stretched wide and deep, holding the soil together. But its branches quarreled among themselves. The tallest branch reached greedily for the sun, shading the others. The middle branch, twisted and heavy, grew inward, resenting the tallest. And the youngest branch, delicate and wild, bent low, pulling away from the others."


The room fell silent as her words painted a vivid picture.


"The tree grew weaker with each passing season," the matriarch continued. "Storms battered its limbs, and the forest around it began to wither. One day, a fierce wind came, threatening to uproot it entirely. And in its final hour, the tree whispered to its branches, 'Why do you fight one another when the earth beneath us is crumbling?'"


The youngest daughter, her voice barely audible, asked, "What did the branches do?"


"They wove themselves together," the matriarch replied. "The tallest bent low to shield the others. The middle branch straightened to bear more weight. And the youngest reached upward, leaning on her siblings for support. Together, they weathered the storm, and the tree grew stronger than ever before."


The family sat in stillness, the weight of the story settling over them like a warm quilt.


The eldest daughter spoke first, her voice softer than usual. "I've been so focused on standing tall that I forgot to bend for my sisters. I thought I was helping, but I've only been pushing them away."


The middle daughter, her armor cracking, said, "I've been holding onto anger for so long that I don't even remember why. I want to let it go, but I don't know how."


The youngest, tears in her eyes, whispered, "I've made so many mistakes, but I don't want to keep breaking us apart. I'll try to do better."


The mother, lifting her head, looked at her daughters with sadness and hope. "We've all been hurting in our own ways, but maybe we've forgotten that we're still part of the same tree. Maybe it's not too late to weave ourselves back together."


The matriarch nodded, her voice steady. "Healing doesn't happen all at once. It's slow, like a tree mending its broken branches. But if you choose to lean on one another, to listen and forgive, the roots will hold."


In that small room, amidst the city's noise and the quiet storm of their pain, a seed of reconciliation was planted. It would take time to grow—storms would come again, and the scars of the past would not fade overnight. But for the first time in years, the family saw the possibility of healing, not through standing apart, but by weaving themselves together.


And so, like the tree in the matriarch's story, they began to find strength in their unity. Branch by branch, root by root, they turned their pain into resilience and their alienation into love that could endure.

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